Age Diversity: Generational Gap: GEN X

Age Diversity: GEN X

In the previous posts, I discussed the Matures, continuing the sequence; we met the Baby Boomers, and now I introduce Generation X or GEN X.

Gen X is between 35 and 45 years old, their lives shaped by Watergate, fall of the Berlin wall, the challenger explosion, 1st Gulf war, the Iran hostage crisis, and the Reagan Presidency. They witnessed the inception of home computers, video games, cable TV, and Internet.

Gen X grew up in families where the divorce rates were the highest ever. They were raised mostly in single parent homes, and called ‘latchkeys kids.’ They might understandably exhibit a suspicious attitude and tend not to trust others easily. Change is more or less the rule of their lives rather than the exception.

They feel that the government, church, military, and major corporations deserve their skepticism. The Xers’ attitude is: “There is nothing we can count on in the future, so we’ll focus short term and make sure each day has significance.” That is why they might have difficulty making long term commitments.
They are different from the matures and baby boomers to whom institutions still mean a great deal; Gen X sees institutions as deserving nothing but cynicism.

The Xers have been defined by some as spoiled and characterized by others as unmotivated, self-indulgent and impertinent, but just because they are skeptical about authority and seek work-life balance, doesn’t make them bad. Do you blame them? They have been told that they wouldn’t be as successful as their parents. They are the junior executives, directors and managers in the workplace.

• Famous examples of Gen X: Sarah Palin, Gavin Newsome, Michael Jordan, Lance Armstrong and Alex Rodriguez.

• Musical Era: Madonna, Ricky Martin, U2, Whitney Houston, Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Guns and Roses, Motley Crue, Bon Jovi and heavy metal bands. They saw the rise and fall of Disco. Gen X is sometimes called the MTV generation.

• Workplace: Reject the die-hard work ethics of their parents, the boomers. Respect talent and achievement over tenure. Value control of their time. They look for a person in whom they can invest loyalty, not a company. They question authority, see rules as flexible, protocol is second as they try to find the fastest ways to results and solutions. They tend to replace face to face meetings with emails to save time.

• Family: Mainly two income families; women entered the workplace in high numbers. Soccer Mom/Dad are expressions used to describe Gen X as parents. They value work-life balance as well as freedom and responsibility. They are cautious with their money and tend to save it.

• Leadership: Rules are flexible, cooperation is more important. They do challenge authorities.

• Culture Ethos: They are the highest educated generation. They accept diversity, being diverse in such aspects as race, religion, ethnicity and sexual orientation. They try to have fun, avoid stress and burnout. Their loyalty is to their individual career goals. They change jobs an average of every three years.

• Communications: Want open communication regardless of position, title, or tenure. Communication is casual and direct. They use electronic gizmos. They see long meetings as waste of time, and may be answering emails on their Blackberries during a meeting. Time is money.

• Recognition and motivation: A balance of fair compensation (immediate) and ample time off as rewards is the best way they feel recognized. They can be more motivated if they are told to forget the rules and do things their own way.

• Technology: They started the Internet and are very familiar and comfortable with their PDAs, BBs, smart phones, and laptops. They embrace technology as a way to control their lives

• As a customer: They believe in “prove it to me” and they don’t trust the traditional sales techniques, hard sell or marketing gimmicks. They want options and choices to suit their preferences. They rely more on peer to peer referrals than any other generation. As customers, Gen X are very loyal.

Next comes Gen Y, Diversity starts at home,

Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
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Blogs For Small Business

I am back from my dormant phase, I took a break from blogging to recharge my batteries, I am so happy to re-connect with all of you again.  This year will be the best year ever, it is the year of the “Dragon” prosperity will reign! So here we go:

Blogging is one of the most under-estimated tools to enhance small businesses in their marketing plans.  Many have come to realize the value of blogging as a means to promote expertise, and establish credibility with their potential customer audience base.

A well-maintained business blog can out-perform a traditional, static business web site in search engines.  In more direct terms, this means that a well-maintained blog can provide a smart business person and his/her business with a competitive advantage online that will translate to more traffic i.e. increasing potential revenue.

From a marketing stand-point, business blogs, in general, have demonstrated that they can:

  1. Generate ways for consumers to discover old and new businesses and their respective products/ services.
  2. Act as a communication medium that offers marketing visibility opportunities for businesses well beyond the search engines.  Business blogs have, in some instances, been known to generate buzz and word of mouth marketing for their businesses (let’s see a static, business web page do that).

 

Benefits of Blogging for Small Business:

  • It tends to be cheaper for a small business to keep up a blog than to keep up a website.  For small business owners without the time to learn web HTML or the money to hire a web designer/developer, blogging offers an inexpensive method to get their company’s name out on the Internet.
  • Having a well-maintained blog may provide small businesses with a powerful edge vs. larger, “blog-silent” businesses pursuing the same customers in the market-place.
  • Blogging has shown time and again that it can be a great marketing tool that boost sales, provides a perfect opportunity for product promotion and helps brand a small business and its products.
  • It tends to improve the customer experience since it allows for public, two-way business/customer conversations (value: customers who feel like a company is listening to them and responding to their needs have been found more likely to develop an emotional connection with that company — something important for a small business seeking to build customer loyalty and generate repeat buyers).

Some Words of Warning about Blogging for Businesses Large and Small:

A well-maintained business blog does involve a significant investment of time.  Also, it tends to communicate best when its writing is humanized and personal-sounding rather than cold and robotic (avoid using corporate jargon that can turn your audience away).

And although a business person may find it challenging, s (he) must take the time to respond to all non-spam comments left on his/her company’s blog — particularly negative comments.   Keep in mind, however, that if these comment responses satisfy an angry customer, that same customer can potentially turn in to an evangelist for the same business down the road.

Once you start a blog, as a business you need to be consistent and start an editorial calendar meaning that you need to maintain your presence by writing regular blogs on your blogging site.

As they say “Content is king”, add useful, clear content that can help readers to become your loyal evangelists or customers waiting for your next blog.  Blogs should never be about the business itself abut about what solutions this business offers, what issues it helps overcome, and what advantages it offers to the readers that look for (WIIIFM: What Is In It For Me)

With all the noise in the social media sphere the people’s attention span is extremely short, you need to grab it from the get go, starting by your title using attracting keywords.

Some free resources for blogging:

-        www.wordpress.com

-        www.blogger.com

-        www.tumblr.com

They are free and paid versions, I would suggest that you start with the free version and see how comfortable you are, then down the line you can shift to a paid version or host one on your website.  You can export your blogs later on to your paid blog version if you decide to do so.

Happy Blogging

Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
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Diversity Equals Positive Work Environment

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Diversity_ Positive work environmentA 2006 survey by Gallup Management Journal found that 56 percent of the US workforce are “not-engaged,’ or sleepwalking through their workday, costing their organization money by putting in time without any passion or personal involvement. Fifteen percent of the United States workforce is “actively disengaged,” where employees are unhappy and manifest their unhappiness not only by undermining the efforts of the engaged employees, but also by creating a hostile work environment that is toxic for all employees possibly leaing to workplace violence. In April 2009, the U.S.Bureau of Labor Statistics published a press release reporting that the usual weekly earnings of wage and salary workers for the first quarter of 2009 were: “Median weekly earnings of the nation’s 100.2 million full-time wage and salary workers were $738 in the first quarter of 2009.” A yearly median salary will be $38,376.00 ($738X52 weeks), the actively disengaged employee will cost their employer 41 percent of their annual salary i.e. $15,922.00. Multiplying that by 15 percent of the workforce, and it demonstrates employer’s loss of millions, if not billions of dollars. Gallup estimates the lost productivity of actively disengaged employees costs the US economy $370 BILLION annually. In February 2010, the number of employees voluntarily quitting surpassed the number being fired or discharged, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics. The issue becomes how long an organization can afford to survive before dealing with the problem of actively disengaged and disgruntled employees. The solution is available for a fraction of the cost of the loss incurred by these organizations. The solution is fostering a positive work environment through diversity and inclusion, training, action plan, execution and follow-up. Creating an organizational culture where all employees feel valued and a vital part of the organization.

Positive work environment is created when the employees feel that they are part of a team working collectively with the senior management towards common goals, be part of decision making and collaborate towards the success of the organization.

Culture will eat strategy for lunch anytime of the day, so it becomes evident why a culture of respect and acknowledgment goes a long way.

The foundation of positive work environment lies on the commitment of every single person at the organization to engage with each other, manage diversity and inclusion, transparency, develop cross-cultural leadership skills, and being accountable for their individual actions, progress and goal achievements.

The most successful workplaces are those in which everyone works well together to create a positive work environment by living the mission, vision and core values of the organization, in alignment with its culture of respecting the diverse talents, valuing and embracing the differences.

In a positive work environment teamwork is appreciated and builds on each others’ strengths and abilities; a strong belief that every single employee is unique and bring their own unique abilities and capabilities to the table and have the right to be treated with dignity and respect; Diversity & Inclusion are weaved through the threads of the organization’s culture where exclusive clubs and ISMs do not exist

Diversity starts at home.

 

Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
Sahar Consulting, LLC. - Home of the D.I.A.L.O.G.™ Programs
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Diversity And Isms

Diversity and IsmsToday, I found a card on top of our mailbox, it read “Love your race”, and the back read”Stop affirmative action” with a link to a website that spewed hatred, with messages as: “We must have new societies throughout the White world which are based on Aryan values and are compatible with the Aryan nature. We do not need to homogenize the White world. What we must have, however, is a thorough rooting out of Semitic and other non-Aryan values and customs everywhere.”

I stopped for a second in disbelief, not because of the intolerance, and hate messages but because it was so blatant, and destructive.

When cultural differences present themselves in any community it can go either way depending on the surrounding factors. They can become an advantage; conflicts can arise or even worst the symptoms of “Isms” start showing when people don’t coexist peacefully.

Racism is perhaps the most problematic of these “Isms”. Simply put, racism is hatred without bounds. It affects all types of organizations and societies.

Racism is when people dislike others simply because of their race, color, religion, gender or even sexual orientation. Those infected by this hatred cannot work well in a diverse environment as they are overcome by their “ISM.”

Sexismclassismableismhomophobiaxenophobia and ageism are also other “Isms.” Although homophobia and xenophobia are not necessarily “Isms,” they are based on hatred.

Many of the “Isms” are the result of a lack of understanding of the various cultures in society. Many individuals confuse culture with race, and lack of communication or knowledge regarding that particular culture creates additional turmoil due to this lack of understanding.

Culture is not only about race or ethnicity but is about common characters such as age, gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, physical ability, education, marital and parental status that allow people within a group to have a common identity.

For example, some Native Americans are raised in a tribal group that does not permit compliments in front of peers in public. Therefore, a Native American individual may exhibit displeasure at a public compliment, not because they are unappreciative, but because it is against their beliefs. However, if the person complimenting him does not understand that, they may take offense to it.

When English is a second language or poorly spoken, language can create misunderstandings leading to issues of loyalty. This lack of understanding often leads to xenophobia, a fear of anything that is foreign or unknown.

In a multicultural diverse society, zero tolerance for racism and prejudice should be adopted, celebrate the uniqueness of each culture, learn from it and use it as strength for our community or organization to build a stronger culturally diverse nation. Diversity and multiculturalism are NOT affirmative action created to right a wrong, and was not created to adversely impact anyone.

Granted, there have been cases where some organizations mistakenly applied Affirmative action alienating deserving employees to be employed or promoted because they were not minorities. Does it justify intolerance? Does it justify racism and prejudice? 
Diversity and multiculturalism should neither be a demand for special rights for minorities, a threat to protecting one’s own cultural identity and safety, nor a majority ruling.

First, we all need to confront our own bias and prejudice first. Who gets to decide what is normal? Who gets to decide who is right and who is wrong and most of all who are we to judge? We are all human beings sharing more or less the same values and desires, it is not a Kumbaya song, but is reality. We all have in common the love of our families, yearn for freedom, want to love and be loved, want to be safe, want to trust and be trusted, be equal in our rights and responsibilities, and most of all we all look for happiness.

Diversity is about dignity, respect and most of all being human. We spend too much time looking for our differences when we have so much in common to celebrate. We keep looking at the five percent differences while ignoring our ninety five percent commonalities. Join me in looking for our similarities rather than our differences to embrace our different cultures in harmony.
Diversity starts at home.

 

Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
Sahar Consulting, LLC. - Home of the D.I.A.L.O.G.™ Programs
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Diversity Challenges- Stereotyping

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We discussed the Diversity Challenges in the last post. An important item in the diversity challenges is stereotyping, so let us start by defining it.

Stereotypes lead to assumptions and conclusions based on a person’s race, gender or sexual preferences. Making these assumptions and conclusions then leads us to discrimination. Stereotypes can be about race, religion, gender, age, disabilities, income, geographical locations.

Stereotyping, has its root in prejudice, is an unjustified negative attitude based on a person’s group or class identity acquired either through past personal experiences or through preconceived wrong beliefs. It includes having an attitude, opinion, perception, or belief about a person or group.

Stereotype is a mental picture developed as a result of a myth. People don’t often realize manifestations of their own bias and prejudice towards others.

A clear example is shown in the case of a Republican official, from Orange County, Ca, a couple of months ago; forwarding an email to some friends depicting an image of a family of chimpanzees, with the superimposed face of President Barack Obama over the baby chimp’s face. The caption read, “Now you know why no birth certificate; thinking it was just a joke. She apologized by saying that she has never been a racist; she just thought it was funny

While we are not judging the behavior, the morale of the story is that we can have our own bias and not even be aware of it, which is the real challenge when it comes to diversity, inclusion, and acceptance.

Important also to note that there a fine difference between generalization and stereotyping. Generalization is a starting point indicating common trends and patterns, for beliefs and behaviors that are shared by a certain group, to make it a bit easier to study its culture, and that there are individual differences even within the same group of people

While generalizing is a positive, stereotyping that might seem similar, functions differently, and can negatively influence interpersonal interactions. Stereotyping is an ending point and can be defined as the process by which people acquire and recall information about others based on their race, sex, religion, etc.

To understand the difference: If I assume that all Middle Eastern are Muslims is stereotyping as a good percentage is Christian, Jewish, Druze or Baha’i. But if I ask myself if a Middle Eastern is Muslim I am making a generalization

One of the publicized stereotypes in the workplace is the “gender” stereotypes, indicated in class action lawsuits as the Wal-Mart and the recent KPMG case.

Gender issues often have a strong impact on a workplace because these types of issues elicit different communication styles and perceptions. These issues can also lead to sexual harassment and other types of discrimination and those that are very subtle. However, these issues are not limited to gender issues, but also include sexual issues, cultural issues and lifestyle issues.

Gender issues are excellent for exploring how stereotypes develop and discrimination occurs. For instance, women often feel undervalued in the workplace, while men often think that they cannot do the same jobs as them. This is a classic stereotype.

Age is another issue, including whether an employee is too old or too young for their position. For instance, Gen Y are presently in leadership positions at the workplace, some may wonder whether they have enough experience for their position as well as life in general.

Sexual orientation issues also arise causing stereotypes and discrimination. As more gay men and lesbian women make their presence known in the workplace and openly talk about their sexuality and partners, many people simply do not understand it. These people are often the center of disrespectful jokes and commentary. Organizations are also openly hiring these individuals into managerial positions. These types of situations often cause tension and even violence between these individuals.

Individuals with disabilities might also be stereotyped and discriminated against. Although the Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 ensures workplace corrections so that disabled people can work easily in their positions, they often feel as though they are left out of the office culture.

Stereotyping and discriminating against certain people and classes that are mostly protected by law, not only affects the bottom line revenues of the workplace, but decreases morale, where employees are disengaged, increase absenteeism, diminishes the capability of recruiting and retaining talents. All these factors will not only decrease productivity, but also subjects the organization to major lawsuits that costs million of dollars in settlements and punitive damages, with a risk to tarnish its reputation forever and can be detrimental to small and middle size businesses.

Diversity starts at home.

Sahar Andrade, MB.BCh
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
Sahar Consulting, LLC. - Home of the D.I.A.L.O.G.™ Programs
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Cross-Cultural Communication

Cross-Cultural communicationLast weekend, I gave a presentation about cross-cultural communication. To my surprise, I found out that a vast majority of the population has a misguided perception that cultures are only about people’s skin colors, different ethnicities or religions, which is very surprising considering the emphasis that is being placed on diversity and the importance therein.

Also, many people didn’t quite grasp the difference between both communication and effective communication; and the concept that there is a difference between hearing and active listening.

Taking all of the above into consideration, I then decided to write this post about the actual definition of effective cross-cultural communication and why it is important to focus on it.

I always like to build a business case around any subject I tackle. When I researched the business case for communication these were the results:

1- The demographics in the United States are rapidly changing: It was perceived that the minorities in the United States will become majorities by 2050; but according to new data, we will see the shift earlier in 2042- 2043.
a- The Hispanic population will increase from 15 to 30 percent within the next 30 years
b- Asians will increase from five to eight percent
c- African Americans will increase only by one percent from 14 to 15 percent.
d- There is at least one million legal immigrants moving to the United States yearly
2- The increased number of female executives where inter-gender communications becomes vital
3- There are four generations communicating at work, where some even consider the presence of 5 generations (dividing generation Y to pre & post 9/11)
4- The buying power of the lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, and trans-gender community is increasing

We spend 70 percent of our daily time communicating with each other. Sustaining productivity and increasing revenues can come down to the point if communication is conducted effectively or not.

Let us go back for a moment to the cross-cultural term: it means communication across different cultures. The world around us especially in the United States is very diverse as demonstrated in the business case.

Diversity includes but is not limited to race, ethnicity, gender, age, religion, disability, sexual orientation; it also includes other factors like socio-economics, education, titles, job descriptions, geographical locations, and marital status, to the point where the diversity of thought, is also included.

And why do we care about diversity in communication? Because each category of diversity has its own culture and each culture has its own communication style, which should also be taken in consideration for product marketing campaigns to different segments of the market.

Then, we need to consider the individuals’cultures, social cultures and the organizational cultures. So, are we fighting a losing battle? In actuality it is much simpler than it sounds, although some flexibility and sensitivity to the different diversity factors and cultures is needed.

The subject might seem a no-brainer, but I have been surprised by how many people never thought about cross-cultural communication in this way. And most importantly:

Diversity starts at home.

Sahar Andrade
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
Sahar Consulting, LLC.

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Is Glass Ceiling For Women a Myth? Part 3

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Breaking the glass ceilingIn the first part of this post we discussed the Glass Ceiling as being an invisible barrier against promoting women to senior executive roles; the second part discussed the obstacles faced.

Looking at the obstacles women face; it becomes evident that the problems are from both sides: women and organizations and since it takes two to tango- solutions have to originate from both sides:
A. Change organizations cultures
B. Women to learn how to brand themselves properly, project their leadership skills knowing how they are perceived

Easier said than done but here are some ideas to tackle the issues:

A- Organizations: Change the culture of the organization

1- Offer flexibility at the workplace for parents; and elderly care-takers especially women
2- Offer leadership training that is not bias towards male leaders
3- Have proper succession plans, including the proper assessments for female leaders, career development and training
4- Offer proper coaching, mentoring and sponsoring for promising female leaders
5- Research the acceptable work practices that can help women advance to senior positions instead of hindering them
6- Monitor the selection process of people for high visibility projects that can enhance a career
7- Offer incentive education re-imbursement for masters and doctorates programs for women
8- Have zero tolerance for stereotyping and discrimination against women – strong HR policies and departments are a great asset.
9- Have proper progressive performance evaluations and constructive feedback

B- Women Leaders:
1- Project their brands, and skills properly and assertively with confidence
2- Empower each other by forming and joining ERG and affinity groups to make their voices heard and to name the barriers and bias they might experience
3- Engage with the organizations in effective initiatives to change the organizations cultural barriers
4- Get rid of the “Glass Ceiling” excuse or as a fate defining issue, or fall under the self fulfilling prophecy to justify why they are not advancing. Acting as a victim is debilitating, we become what we work for.
5- Strategize a plan for your career: Plan properly for your S.M.A.R.T. goals, know what is needed to advance, get the required qualifications as education or certification or mentoring, 
6- Stand for themselves and speak-up; prevent others from assuming or trying to perceive their styles, competencies and abilities
7- Ask for feedback from managers or superiors, colleagues that they trust; take their comments into consideration as we are what we do – our actions, verbal and non verbal communications and behaviors affect how we are perceived. Never get defensive
8- Study and research what is needed as knowledge, skills and abilities needed to advance. It is fine to ask for help, seek coaching in areas identified as vulnerable
9- Knowing that it will not be easy, or comfortable, they will need to adapt to many changes along the way, get out of their comfort ones but who said life was easy? Look at career as being a adventure along the life journey.

Then, and may be then a path can be created to propel women through the glass ceiling to executive positions.

Diversity starts at home

 

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Sahar Andrade

Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
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Is Glass Ceiling For Women a Myth? Part 2

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Glass ceiling for women

In the first part of this article, we discussed the Glass Ceiling as being an invisible barrier against promoting women to senior executive roles; I feel it is better described as a maze since it more accurately conveys the complexity and randomness that typically occurs better than the glass-ceiling metaphor.

Maze and games shouldn’t be there to start with, but women usually are met with stereotyping, and resistance to be promoted.

Some believe that if you fill the companies’ pipelines with exceptional women leaders talents, eventually they’ll make it into the executive suite kind of “build it they will come” or “just give it time” philosophies have been widely accepted for decades. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work that way.

According to the 2010 study “The Impact of Gender on Voluntary and Involuntary Executive Departure”; showed that female executives voluntarily leave their corporate positions twice as often as counter males .

There are many challenges that continue to face women who strive to get to the top, but how long are we going to dwell over spilled milk? The fact that there are women in senior leadership positions, some in industries that are stereotypically male dominated indicates that the barriers can be broken. So what are the real reasons behind anyone including women not reaching a certain level of hierarchy, or promotion; so is it competence, supply, Comfort zones, complacency, fear of success or none of these factors?

If we can define the causes of an illness and control its symptoms, we can then find a cure, so if we can define the reasons of the Glass Ceiling and decrease its effects then we can find a solution and a remedy to the problem.

First let us address the most common obstacles: Please note that these are the generally dominant obstacles, they do not necessarily apply in all cases:

  1. Gender stereotypes where women are seen as mothers and spouses with family responsibilities that will prevent them from moving upward
  2. Perceptions of women inability to network especially after work hours, or mix with the boys for drinks
  3. Outdated succession planning or lack of them; and career development systems
  4. Frequent traveling, or relocation because of a job
  5. Lack of sponsorships of females into leadership positions
  6. Lack of mentors and role models for women
  7. “All Boys” culture organizations’ cultures
  8. Women fear of speaking up
  9. Women fear of success

The leadership styles of men and women are different from each other, women are not men in dresses; and shouldn’t be expected to act or lead the same way to fit in. Plus women at the top are damned if they do and damned if they don’t; If they are aggressive and lead with an iron fist they are seen as a threat, if they try the inclusive and participative style of leadership they are seen as too soft.

In the next and final post we will discuss the effect of the obstacles and some suggested solutions.

Diversity starts at home.

Sahar Andrade

Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
Sahar Consulting, LLC.

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Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays?

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Religion ToleranceToday is Christmas day. It is my best time of the year, I wait for it like a little child, and I listen to the Christmas carols all month long.

But this is not what my post is about today. I grew up overseas in many countries where Christianity wasn’t the dominant religion of these countries, and I still saw the Christmas trees with the lights, I dreamed about Santa Claus and the gifts he will bring me on Christmas day; so I had to be a good girl, and I learned to wish people “Merry Christmas”.

Many children around the world believe in Santa Claus whom is called many names: Papa Noel (French), Saint Nicholas, Saint Nick, Papai Noel (Portuguese), Gwazdor(Polish), Ded Moroz (Russian) or Baba Nwel (Arabic) etc…

In the last few years I have been noticing that more and more people wishing each other “Happy Holidays” and not “Merry Christmas” as we are used to. The reason is that some people commented that they get offended as they don’t celebrate Christmas. So to be politically correct, we started hearing “Happy Holidays” more and more.

Around the same time of the year, depending on the sun or the moon, we may celebrate few festivities like Chanukah, Christmas, Eid El Edha, and Kwanzaa. The date of the Jewish festivities Chanukah, and for the Muslim Eid El Edha change from one year to the other as they are based on the lunar cycle; thus the dates fluctuate with respect to other calendar systems.

Does that mean that any of the festivities should over shadow the other? Absolutely, NOT!

We all live in a nation that is composed of multiple religions, races and ethnicities. We should all accept, and if not accept at least respect, understand, and celebrate each other festivities.

What is wrong in wishing anyone “Merry Christmas” how would that offend anyone just because it is Christmas. I wish my Jewish friends Happy Chanukah, La’ Shana Tova, and to my Muslim friends Happy Eid or Happy Ramadan. In this great nation we celebrate Diwali, the Chinese New Year, The Nairuz Persian New Year, etc… Do we always tell everyone at any festivity Happy Holidays? The answer is No, so why change for Christmas?

Each festivity or celebration has its own name, and its own wishes so why not use the proper one. Diversity is about inclusion and acceptance. Sensitivity goes both ways.

Being politically correct not to hurt some feelings; shouldn’t be at the expense of someone else’s feelings.

I do not celebrate Christmas religiously, but I do socially and I say Merry Christmas. What is next not to wish someone Happy Easter or Happy Pessach? And just wish everyone Happy Holidays in all occasions no matter what faith or belief?

We are not a melting pot where we all become one gooey ugly melt, where everything loses its shape and colors; we all have our own colors and flavors as in a fresh bowl of salad; that should be respected and celebrated

Happy Chanukah!
Merry Christmas!
Happy Kwanzaa!

Diversity starts at home,

 

Sahar Andrade
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
Sahar Consulting, LLC.

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(818)861 9434

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The Longoria Affair- Part 1

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Diversity: Felix LongoriaI watched a documentary on PBS the other day, called the “Longoria Affair” that blew my mind. And, no it is not about Eva Longoria or her recent separation from her husband.

It is about a brave Mexican-American soldier, Felix Longoria Jr., that fought for our country in World War II, and was killed while on a mission.

So far it is a common story that we hear about all the time, but this one is different. Longoria lived in the Mexican neighborhood of Three Rivers a Texan small city that was split into two by the rail tracks, one side with street names are in English, predominantly white; and the other side with street names are in Spanish, predominantly Mexican.

What they had in common was World War II as most families at that time, had at least a family member fighting in the war. Men from both sides of the tracks volunteered to fight.

What really surprised me is to know how this story initialized the grass roots of the Mexican Americans civil rights movements and was also the mute reason behind the Civil Rights Acts of 1964 issued by President Johnson.

Now back to the details, Felix Longoria was drafted in November of 1944, and was killed in the Philippines while on a mission, seven months after beginning the volunteer tour of duty. He was a decorated soldier. Pvt. Longoria’s remains were not returned to the US until 1949.

What happened after that is argued by the two sides on the opposing tracks. Longoria’s wife tried to have a wake at the only funeral home in Three Rivers. To her surprise, Mr. Kennedy the funeral home owner, refused to allow a wake for a Mexican-American soldier; allegedly telling her – as per her narration – that the “Whites won’t like it”. She couldn’t believe that the Americans that her husband died to defend them, considered him as a 2nd class citizen.

In Texas during the 1940s, as in other parts of the country, Mexican Americans were considered non-white. Segregation of Mexican American children in schools and employment discrimination against Mexican American workers was omnipresent in some parts of the South.

Generally Mexican American World War II servicemen were integrated into regular military units but some served in segregated Mexican American units such as Company C of the 141st Regiment, 36th Infantry Division.[5]

On top of that; Felix Longoria a fallen serviceman, was to be buried in the “Mexican” section of the cemetery which was separated by barbed wire as the only cemetery in Three Rivers was segregated.

The Longoria story was one of the reasons to start AGIF (American G.I. Forum) in 1948 by Dr, Hector Garcia; whom some accused of using the Longoria affair to his own personal gain in building a political career for himself. AGIF role was initially to address the concerns of Mexican-American veterans, who were kept apart from other veterans groups. AGIF was formed to help the Mexican veterans in World War II to have access to their medical services, if they were denied. But, it soon spread into advocating for the civil rights of all Mexican Americans in general as voting rights, school segregation, Jury duty, etc…

Dr. Garcia requested the intervention of President Johnson that was a Senator at the time, who secured Longoria’s burial in Arlington National Cemetery with full military honors. Longoria was the first Mexican American serviceman in history, to be buried in the Arlington National Cemetery in history.

Dr. Garcia used his growing cloud from both the AGIF and the Longoria affair to demand the Veterans Administration to offer and pay the same benefits to Mexican Americans as it did to white veterans.

He also fought for to obtain rights for the Mexican Americans otherwise considered basic rights as the poll tax. In some states like Texas, the voters were charged a compulsory fee before casting their votes, which meant that most minorities at the time as Mexican Americans who were out of luck due to their low income

In the next post, we will discuss the effects of the Longoria affair on helping President Kennedy win the elections, how the Civil Rights Acts of 1964 was initialized, and how it created a lifelong bond and political partnership between Johnson and Garcia, as well as drawing attention to the American GI Forum.

Till then, remember Diversity starts at home,

Cheers,

Sahar Andrade
Diversity Consultant – Social Media Strategist
Sahar Consulting, LLC.

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